My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 79 Places I want to visit

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 79
42. Five places you would like to visit are:

It would be impossible for me to pick just five places I want to visit.  I have a list of hundreds of places, so narrowing it down to 5 would be difficult.  Although I have traveled and have had the opportunity to visit so many wonderful places, there are still many areas just in the U.S. alone that I want to go.  I won’t even mention the international places that are on my list to visit because that would up that list by a few hundred more.

As part of my surgery recovery “kit” I have purchased several books (I know, I’m old school.. I still love the feel and smell of good old fashion books verse Ebooks).  One of the books that I bought to go through while I’m stuck in bed is this “USAs Best Trips: 51 Amazing Road Trips”.  I have this desire to travel the United States.  By car would be amazing since I do have a fondness for road trips.  I could find over 100 places I want to visit just from this book alone.

From the California Coast to Key West, I am looking forward to getting out and seeing all of the amazing places this country has to offer.  Give me any national monument, national park or site with any historic significance and I am a happy girl.

I am very much looking forward to the days when Don and I are both retired so that we can do some of these incredible road trips (I have a ways to go before I retire, so I’m hoping we can do at least a handful of them before that time).

My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 55 What I really enjoy doing…

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 55
321. What do you really enjoy doing?

Although there are many things that I enjoy doing (scrapbooking, cooking, late Sunday mornings laying in bed watching movies with my husband…), if I had to narrow it down to just one thing, I would say that the thing I most enjoy doing is our weekend getaways.

Don’t get me wrong, I love extended vacations as well, but there is just something so fun about the weekend getaway.  We try and do this at least two or three times a year and often times these are the trips that end up being our most memorable.  Maybe it’s because these are normally the only trips we get to take by ourselves.  Pretty much all of our vacations are spent with other people, but when we do an overnight getaway, we can usually find a way to sneak away on our own and that is truly magical.  One would think that after over 15 years, I would be bored spending time with my husband, but we have such a great time together when we hit the road.

A little insider tip, I love to use Groupon getaways for our small overnight or two night trips.  You can find some amazing deals through Groupon and we have found some of our favorite places by taking a chance and booking some of these deals.  One of our funniest overnight getaway was a quick trip to Pacific Grove, CA.  I spent a great deal of my childhood in Pacific Grove and the Monterey area.  My great-grandparents lived in Pacific Grove and we would go and spend weekends there on a regular basis when I was younger.  So any change I get to go back and revisit all those memories is always a special time for me.  I found on Groupon a great deal on a hotel right in Pacific Grove.  It was the Lighthouse Inn.  We went down for an overnight stay to celebrate my birthday.  When we arrived, I was a little surprised to find out that the Inn was located right next to a cemetery.  At first I was a little freaked out and wondered if I would be able to sleep, but it turned out that it was actually rather beautiful.  Our deck faced the cemetery and we were able to sit out on the deck and watch deer walking around the cemetery grounds.  It was so peaceful that I found nothing scary or frightening about it.
We had the most amazing 36 hours.  And let me tell you, that 36 hours felt like we had been away for days.  We took walks and ate great food and visit some of my favorite childhood places.  All of this in just one overnight trip.  As a side note, Pacific Grove/ Monterey/ Carmel are all some of my favorite places to take pictures, which is an added bonus when we get to go spend time there.  Here are some random pictures from a fantastic overnight getaway.  One I hope that we get to do again very soon.


This was just one of so many quick weekend trips that we have taken, but I will save the rest for another time.  This was just one of my very favorite getaways that I think really shows that you don’t always have to go on a big lavish trip to feel like you are getting that refreshing vacation feel.  We were literally gone less then 36 hours and yet still got to do and see so much.  And most important, got to spend quality time together talking and laughing.  Our relationship only gets stronger each time we take one of these weekend trips.  I look forward to many, many more in the future.

My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 43. My Favorite Vacation

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 43
124. What was your favorite vacation or trip ever?

Over the years, I’ve had many wonderful vacations and weekend trips.  Having to narrow it down to one favorite is a difficult task.  Those that know me would automatically assume that my favorite vacation would have to be something Disney related.  Others might assume it must be my trip to Paris.  Surprisingly, I have to say that it is neither of these.

I traveled some prior to meeting my husband over 15 years ago.  The majority of my travels and the most memorable ones have been the ones that I have taken with him.  So don’t tell him, but I would have to say my favorite trip/vacation was the cruise that I went on by myself when I was 21 years old.  The trip itself was fantastic, but part of why I would pick this as my favorite trip is because this was an adventure that I took completely alone.  I have always been that type of person that would never even consider going to a movie alone, let alone taking a major vacation by myself.  I am not sure what came over me and why I was so insistent on taking this trip, but I was and so I did.

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One would think that I would have maybe gone small on my first solo vacation, but I decided if I was going to do it, I was going to go big.  I booked a cruise to the Caribbean.  This would mean having to fly from California to Florida (keeping in mind that this would only be the 2nd time I had ever flown in my life), then check into a hotel and stay the night in Miami before heading out on the ship the next day.

I still remember how overwhelmed and yet excited I was when I boarded the ship.  Here I was, on my own… a very shy and introverted person, taking what most would consider to be a very social vacation completely alone.  Looking back I am still shocked at how much I ventured out of my comfort zone during that trip.  I took excursions at every port that we stopped at and even managed to force myself to go sit at a table with 7 strangers each night for dinner.  It was actually nicer being at a larger table with more people because I was not as expected to put forth to much into conversation.  I was able to sit back and listen to all the others talk.  They were very sweet to me and always would ask me questions to help pull me into their conversations (and out of my shell).  On all of the excursions, as soon as people found out I was alone, someone would always end up taking me under their wing and would include me in their group.

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The ship stopped in Jamaica, Grand Cayman, Cozumel and the private Island that Royal Caribbean has.  I walked up waterfalls and snorkeled with turtles.  Back on the ship I went to all the shows in the evening, gambled in the casino and hung out at the pool.  One of the reasons that this vacation would fall under one of my favorite is that this is the only vacation I have ever taken where I was able to do 100% what I wanted.  If I wanted to sleep in, I would.  If I wanted to eat, I would.  I didn’t have to worry about what ANYONE else wanted to do.  The whole trip was all about what I wanted.

Being that person that is always concerned about everyone else, this was probably the only time I have ever traveled where I didn’t have to feel guilty about doing things that I wanted to do, and that was kind of amazing.

Would I vacation alone again?  Well, technically my month long trip to Paris was also alone (minus a week that my cousin flew over to join me), but since that was a work trip, I don’t really consider it a “vacation”.  So, I would have to answer no, I probably would never travel alone again.  Even though way back when I took this trip I was much shyer and more reserved, I was also not as scared.  As I got older, I became so fearful of.. well, basically everything.  I may be able to hold more of a conversation now then I did back then, but I also wouldn’t be nearly as adventurous.

My First Adventures By Disney Vacation is Booked! FINALLY



I am extremely excited to announce that after many years of trying, our very first Adventures by Disney vacation is now officially booked!  FINALLY!

Here is my Adventures by Disney story…….

About 3-4 years ago, I got the bug to want to travel Internationally for the first time.  Neither my husband or I had ever traveled outside of the country and although I am terrified of flying, something just clicked in me that made me decide that it was time!  Being a Disney Vacation Club member, I often get various Disney information in the mail.  One day I received an brochure that contained information about all sorts of glorious vacations (both International and Domestic) that were provided by Adventures By Disney.  I started flipping through the catalog and came across the pages for a trip of a lifetime to Germany.  I was instantly hooked… bait, line and sinker.  They showed the most amazing pictures of visiting beautiful castles (Neuschwanstein Castle: the castle that  Walt Disney himself used as motivation for Sleeping Beauty Castle), taking a Berlin Wall bicycle tour, learning to make pretzels, brewery visits, chocolate factory tours and of course, lots of yummy German food.  I was in a vacation  haze.  The trip would start in Munich and end in Berlin with stops in Rothenberg and Bamberg.    As fabulous as all this was, it was all wrapped up in a big red bow by adding the fact that this all was accompanied by all the Disney magic one would expect.  They would take care of all the transportation, excursions, many of the meals and hotel check-ins.  Being the person in our household that plans all vacations and events (which I do enjoy doing), it was still such a wonderful thought to realize that we could book this vacation and that is all I would have to do.  They planned EVERYTHING.  We just had to basically show up.  What a nice break that would be for me.

Although I was completely on board 100%, my husband…. not so much.  This could be because I basically came home one day and said, “I am booking this trip to Germany”.  Not very nice of me to not include him in the decision making.  There were also all sorts of other wonderful locations we could go (Ireland, Italy, Switzerland, London, etc.).  His response was “OK” and he went about his business.  He never showed a great deal of excitement, but I felt I was excited enough for the two of us, so I went ahead and booked the trip.  A booking which included a $1000.00 deposit.

The trip was booked for the following year.  I continued to be super excited about the whole experience and kept reading the itinerary and continued to try and get my husband to rise to my excitement level (he was excited about the Berlin Wall Bike, but that’s all I could get out of him).   As the months passed by and the trip started getting closer, in true Tammy fashion, I realized that I had committed to more then I could afford and there was just no way I was going to be able to swing this trip.  We decided that we would postpone one year and go the following year.  I was pretty devastated, but my husband seemed okay with it all.

I postponed the trip to the following year.  During this time, we decided that we were going to get MARRIED!  Finally, after 14 years, we were going to take the leap and become husband and wife.  At first we thought we would just make the Germany trip our honeymoon, but as the wedding expenses started getting higher (amazing how much a wedding costs, even when you go relatively cheap),  I realized once again that we were not going to be able to swing the cost of the trip.  By this time, my husband was starting to get on board with the idea, so we were both disappointed, but we had the wedding to look forward to, so again, the trip was postponed to the following year.

This brings us to the year that I found out I would be going to France for a month for work.  I’m sure you can see where this is headed… there was no way I was going to be gone for a month in France and then turn around and take this elaborate trip back over to Germany.  Unfortunately, by this time, Disney had enough of our postponing and we had to forfeit the $1000.00 deposit.

So, life went on and I continued dreaming about eventually taking an Adventures By Disney vacation (to any location).  Which brings us to a month ago when out of the blue, I received an email saying that if we did not confirm and book a reservation by end of April (for travel within 2019) that our reservation would be forfeited.  Hmmmm… the reservation I already thought had been forfeited had now returned?!?!  This was such amazing news.  Now the problem was that we had to figure out which Adventures By Disney vacation we could afford to do in such sort notice.  They have what they call “short escape” trips which are usually 3-4 nights long.  We narrowed it down to Boston, New Year, Montana or good ole’ faithful Disneyland.  After much financial debate  (remembering that 2019 is supposed to be my getting out of debt year), we compromised and decided to do the Disneyland Resort and Southern California Short Escape.  Now this may seem silly, since this is only 6 hours from our home and because we have been to Disneyland more times than I can count.  However, I look at it this way.  1.) We are FINALLY getting to do an Adventures by Disney vacation.  I truly believe that once my husband sees the amazing service that is going to be provided, he is going to be as hooked on these Disney trips as I already am.
2.) We go to Disneyland every October anyway.  Instead of losing the deposit (again), it made more sense to put the deposit towards a trip we were already planning on taking.

So what makes the Adventures By Disney trip different then just going to Disneyland on our own?  Well, to start with, it’s the whole special treatment thing that Disney is so famous for.  We will get to stay in Disney’s Grand Californian Hotel & Spa, which we have stayed at once before, but is just to pricey for a normal yearly trip.  Plus, even with all of our previous Disneyland trips, we will get to do some special things that we have never done before.  The group will get a special visit into Walt Disney’s apartment that is on Main Street above the fire house.  I knew that it existed, but I never thought I would get to go inside.  I’m almost giddy at the thought.  Plus we will get a special backstage tour of the park and a private tour of the Walt Disney Studios.  They will arrange character breakfasts and special dinners.  We will also get to have VIP entrance to the park (hopefully cutting down on those crazy long lines that we always end up standing in).

To say that I’m excited is an understatement.  I cannot wait for October to get here.  I am pretty positive that after the trip is over, we will end up booking another Adventures By Disney trip right away.  It’s really crazy because I’m normally the one that is very apprehensive and gets anxiety when put in a situation where things are new or unknown, however, when it comes to travel, it is my husband who turns into that person.  He is always a little reluctant about things until we actually do them and then is get so excited!  This happened with cruising.  I took him on his first cruise and now he wants to go every year!

We’ll be seeing you real soon Mickey!


My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 33

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 33
37. Your 10 greatest joys are….

My 10 greatest joys in no particular order:

1.) Random texts from those I love just saying they are thinking of me
There is just something so special about getting a random text from someone for no other reason then because they wanted to say they were thinking of you.  It does not happen often, but the few times this has happened, it not only brings me that instantaneous joy, but also puts me in a good mood for the rest of the day.  Just recently I was having a not-so-great day at work and out of the blue, I received a text from my god-daughter saying that she just wanted to say she loved me and missed me and that she hoped I was having a good day.  I found it interesting that she just happened to send that text on a day when I was having a rough time.  It made me smile from ear-to-ear and it pulled me out of the funk I was in.  It just goes to show that the smallest things can bring another person such joy.  We should all do more to bring joy to others life.  I love that girl.

2.) Taking pictures and revisiting those memories
I love taking pictures.  I have my camera (yes I still go old-school style and have an actual camera) or my cell camera out taking pictures wherever we are.  It does not matter the event or vacation, you can be assured that I will have pictures to document the memories.  The importance of documenting moments with photos is extremely high on my list.  Although I have pretty much always been that person that has her camera out snapping shots, the importance really hit me just recently when we attended a memorial for my friends husband.  During the celebration of life ceremony after the service, they showed the most wonderful slide show with photographs spanning his whole life.  It made me realize that this is exactly why I do what I do.  I take pictures so that down the road, I (or others) can look back and revisit the experiences that were important enough to for me to take the time to photograph them.
For a while I was big into making the photobooks of each individual event and adventure. There are times when I will just sit down and look through them all and remember all the wonderful memories.  With all the pictures I have, I probably could make another 200 books and still not be finished, but I am determined to try.
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3.) Disney
I have no other words then Disney brings me joy.  Pure and complete joy.  I cannot walk into any Disney location without instantly being overwhelmed with happiness and a strange sense of calmness.  I think the calmness comes from the fact that in everyday life I am very anxious and high strung.  Disney is one of the few places that all of those feelings vanish and I can just be at peace and enjoy everything around me.  Granted, I am not a big fan of crowds or screaming children.. and outside of Disneyland it would pose a problem, but inside Disneyland I seem to be more tolerable of the things that cause me anxiety in everyday life.


4.) Planning Vacations
Yes, planning vacations brings me joy.  I know for some it is stressful, but for me, it is often one of the best parts of vacationing.  I love the organizing, the searching around for new and interesting things to do and the hunt for good deals.  I love keeping binders with reservation printouts and google map directions (I know.. there is GPS on the phone.. but what can I say, I’m a paper person.  I like to hold that piece of paper in my hand rather then the phone).

5.) Taking vacations
Getting away from life, whether it be for 1 day or 9 just makes me a much happier person.  My husband and I don’t often get to vacation on our own.  We are usually with various other people.  So part of the joy of vacationing for me is that during all of the pre-planning, I try and make sure that I am able to do special things to make vacations special for others.  If we can go on vacation with other people, and I can in someway make their experience better by having something planned that is going to bring them joy.. then that brings me joy.

6.) My alone time
My work offers the option of working a 9/80 schedule.  This means that I work all of my 80 hours in 9 days and then I get a day off every other week.  I find a lot of joy on that every-other Friday off when I get have some quality alone time.  I personally think it’s important to spend time alone.  It gives your time to decompress and get some much needed space.  This is a difficult part of my relationship with my husband, because he is the opposite.  He does not like to be alone.. ever.  So he does not understand why I find so much joy in being by myself.  I think after 15 years he is finally starting to get it, but it still can be difficult.  I try to explain to him that sometimes a person just needs to have time to sit and watch old reruns of their favorite show without someone else there giving comminatory about how stupid they think it is.

7.) Having time to work on hobbies 
Since extra time is not something that I have a lot of, I usually don’t give myself the opportunity to spend time doing things that I enjoy.  As mentioned above, I love pictures.  So this has created an obsessive hobby of photobook making and scrapbooking.  I recently started getting into a form of scrapbooking called Project Life.  I purchased a ton of products to get started, but have yet to find the time to actually sit down and do it.  So, on the rare occasion I have time to do any type of hobby, it brings me a lot of joy.  It could be that I find more joy in it because the time I get to spend doing it is so rare.

8.) Paying off a bill
Having been in debt for so much of my life and always having those credit card bills hanging over my head, there is an extreme since of joy when a bill gets paid off.  I wish I could say that over the course of the last 35 years that once I paid off a bill, it would stay “paid off”, but that unfortunately wouldn’t be the truth.  Even though I know the joyous feeling of paying them off, it still apparently is not enough to keep me from charging them back up again.  I have gotten much better and this is the year of my debt free journey, so here is hoping that I have that feeling of joy more and more often in the upcoming months.

9.) Socks
There is not a lot to say about this one.  I have no explanation for my strange fixation for socks.  But they do bring me joy.  Socks are comforting to me.  I wear them all day and all night (minus the few times I wear sandals or go to the beach/pool).  I wear them to bed regardless if the weather is 45 degrees of 100 degrees.  I know it sounds crazy, but I just feel very uncomfortable without them.  I actually despise the feel of sheets against my feet.  You know the shivery feeling  you get with nails on a chalkboard?  That is how I feel when I have to have sheets rub against my feet.   Hey… what can I say… I’ve never tried to pretend I don’t have some serious “issues”.

10.) Lists:  making them and crossing things off of them
Sheldon Cooper said it best….”If there were a list of things that made me more comfortable, lists would be on the top of that list”.  How true that is.  Lists do all sorts of things for me.  They not only bring me joy, but they bring me comfort and a sense of calmness.  I would be lost without my lists.  I have them everywhere.  I have work lists, personal lists, grocery lists, food planning lists, money budget lists…. need I go on?  I clearly am obsessed with lists.  The only thing more joyful then making the list is crossing something off of it when you have completed a task.

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My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 13

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 13
251. What makes you excited?

It seems as we get older, we tend to lose that ability to get excited about a lot of things.  I am no different then most.  I do not have a whole lot of situations in my life that make me feel excited.  Most of the things that make me excited are silly small things that most would find a little odd.

I get excited about getting into a freshly made bed with nice clean sheets.  There is something so comforting about the clean-crisp feeling and smell of fresh sheets.  I always sleep best on these nights.

Another thing that makes me excited are new socks.  I love socks.  I wear socks all the time.  Day and night, regardless of the weather.  It can be 100 degrees outside and you will find me wearing socks.  The only few times I don’t have socks on are when I am at the pool, the beach or the occasional time I wear sandals or heels.

I want to say that travel is something that gets me excited.  Internally I struggle between excitement and anxiety when we are about to travel.  I am definitely excited when planning the travel.  Once the day actually arrives however, the excitement changes to a pretty intense anxiety.  We don’t even have to be flying for the anxiety to hit.  Even if we are going on a road trip, the act of actually leaving is enough to trigger it.

If I had to pick one thing that I could honestly say brings me excitement each and every time it would be walking through he gates of Disneyland (or Disneyworld).  I turn into an 8 year old girl every single time we are about to enter a Disney park.  Seeing the castle for the first time on each trip always brings me this giddy excitement.  It is the only place where for a brief time I can forget about the real world and all the stress and drama.  My anxiety is distinguished and I can simply relax and enjoy.

My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 12

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 12
59. In the next year I plan to…..

Oh my goodness…. I have some pretty ambitious plans for 2019.  I guess this probably happens to a lot of people.  The desire to make life changes often happen in January.  That fresh start of the New Year can make us want to reevaluate a variety of different aspects of our lives.  I’ve never really been much into New Years Resolutions.  I cannot recall every saying “My New Years Resolution is…..”.  The areas in which I have made my 2019 plans are pretty much just carry over of changes I started in 2018.  I have just got more specific with what I want and how I want to accomplish things.

Plan #1:  Work on Simplifying life (non-extreme minimalism)
This plan is already in full swing.  I have become disillusioned with “things”.  Those feelings of desire to buy more and more things and have drawers full of makeup and closest smashed so full of clothing that you barely can even tell what you have are becoming a thing of the past for me.  I wish I could say I made a magical transformation overnight and that I never want to buy anything ever again, but of course, that would be a lie.  What I am trying to do is be more conscious of the things I have and not impulse buy so much.  At the end of 2019, I don’t want to end up with shelves full of unused hobby supplies or random gadgets that I’ve never touched.  So this sort of accomplishes two of my 2019 plans.  This will help eliminate clutter and help me life a simpler life, but will also keep my wasteful spending under control so that I can focus on paying off debt.
As I mentioned, this plan is already underway.  24 days ago I started a 30 day minimalist challenge.  I started day 1 back in December by de-cluttering 1 item.  Day 2, I de-cluttered 2 items, and so on.  Today is day 24 and I still EASILY found 24 items to discard.  The goal is to go to day 30 and at the end de-clutter 30 items from your surroundings.  This will be a total of over 400 items gone from your space.  The plan is to do this challenge several more times, focusing on specific areas of the home.  This first challenge was focused on our spare (junk) room.  The 2nd challenge will focus on the bedroom, bathroom and hallway closet.  Challenge 3 will be spent de-cluttering the kitchen for 30 days.  Challenge 4 will be our garage (which is just a holding space for anything that does not fit in the house).  By the end of the year, the plan is to have completed this challenge at least 4 times, which will have eliminated about 1800 items.  These items will either be donated, giving to others we know will use them or if they are garbage, thrown away.
I have other blogs that specifically focus on trying to live more minimal and also show photos and progress of the things I am getting rid of.

Plan #2: Work on getting out of debt
How beautiful would it be to live debt-free?  I cannot really answer that (maybe some of you can let me know in the comments how wonderful it is and give me encouragement).  I’ve never in my adult life or even my teenage life been debt free.  I got my first credit card when I was 15 and have been in debt ever since.  There has not been one time in my life since I was a child that I have not had numerous credit cards and fairly large balances on each.
I have set into motion this year an actual debt payoff budget plan.  I’ve been watching tons of YouTube videos on others that have paid off debt and have gotten some pretty great tips and tricks on living a more frugal life so that I have extra money to put on my debt-snowball.  I’ve just started this a few months ago, so I am still trying to figure out all of the specifics.  I’ve never been one to limit myself on buying things I want.  Even if I had no money (which, lets face it, with all my debt, I rarely have any extra money to buy much of anything), so I would just charge it.  I’ve never put myself on a budget.  As simple as it may sound for most, this is actually a little frightening to me.  I don’t want to restric us from living life and having fun.  In contradiction to this debt payoff plan, I am also a firm believer on “tomorrow is never a guarantee”.   So what I need to do is find that fine line where I can be happy and comfortable with both aspects of living.  I need to try and not go extreme in either direction.

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Plan #3: Spend more time on things I enjoy
Which is what brings me here to this blog.  I enjoy writing.  I like to document my story of life.  The problem is life it self tends to get in the way of doing those things we really enjoy.  We focus so much on doing what “needs” to be done that we don’t do a lot of what we “want” to get done.  Which is what brought me to the 365 day blogging challenge.  If I challenge myself to something, I feel more accountable and am more likely to stick to it.  So far so good, as I’m on day 12 and still really enjoying this!

Plan #4: Project Life/Ali Edwards scrapbook
I have always loved to scrapbook.  Part of that stems from my love of taking pictures.  I’m that person that every knows as the “picture taker”.  I take pictures of everything and at all events.  To me, pictures are memories.  One day I want to look back and be able to look through pictures of all of our adventures and remember fondly the joy they brought to our lives.  My plan for this year is to get back into scrapbooking, but with a different approach.  This “project life” scrapbooking idea attracted my attention when it talked about a more simplified scrapbook process.  I’ve purchased all of the supplies, now it’s just seeing if I can stick to my plan of actually creating these albums this year.  I often get overwhelmed with pictures and get to a point where I don’t know were to start, so I simply don’t start at all.  I am hoping that does not happen again this year.

Plan #5: Travel/Adventures
Due to my wanting to focus on paying off debt this year, I don’t imagine we will go on any extravagant trips this year.  I am hoping however to have some fun weekend getaways or even day trips.  We have our week long trip to Vegas later in the year but have nothing else really planned out yet.  We have not been camping in a while, so I would be happy planning a camping trip for this summer.

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So I guess that’s about it for my 2019 plans.  Maybe a little over ambitious to hope that I will have time to complete all of my forecasted plans.  But that’s okay.  I will just have to do my best!

My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 10

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 10
284.  List all the vacations you’ve taken

It would be difficult to try and list all of the vacations I’ve taken in my lifetime with just one post.  So for the sake of this 365 day blog experiment, I am going to try and briefly list as many as I can think of.

Except for my one month long trip to France for work, I’ve never taken any overseas vacations.  Although I would like to and hope to in the future.  When I was a child, our vacations consisted of camping trips and trips to Disneyland and Universal Studios.  Except for some trips to Tahoe, Reno and Las Vegas, I never even left California until I was 18.

Over the years I have been to Hawaii several times, traveled to Disneyland pretty much yearly, as well as Disneyworld every 2-3 years.  We take regular camping vacations and have been to Texas a few times.  Once to Dallas so that my husband could see a Dallas Cowboys game during the last season in their old stadium (my husband is a born and raised Californian as well, so I’ve never really understood why he is a Dallas Cowboys fan).  I went to San Antonio for a week on a business trip so I’m not sure that really counts as vacation, but I was able to do a bunch of fun stuff like one of those open top bus tours, a cruise down the river walk and of course a trip to the Alamo. We go to Las Vegas yearly and have been on numerous cruises. We’ve also been to Seattle a few times.  I love it there.

1.) Places we have been on Cruise ships:
Alaska: Junaeu, Glaciers point, Skagway
Caribbean: Cozumel Mexico, Nassau Bahamas, Labadee Haiti, George Town Grand Cayman, CocoCay Bahamas, Jamaica, San Juan Puerto Rico, Phillipsburg St. Maarten, Charlotte Amalie St. Thomas
Mexico: Ensenada, Cabo San Lucas, Cancun, Mazatlán, Puerto Vallarta

I think that cruising is probably one of our favorite forms of vacationing.  I get that it’s not for everyone.  However, I would like to say that for those that are reluctant to cruise because they think they will be “bored” on cruise ship, please give it a try.  Cruise ships now are literally sailing cities.  You can do so much not just during the shore excursions, but on the ships themselves.  We have ice skated, roller bladed, zip lined, watched Broadway style shows, enjoyed comedy clubs, climbed rock walls and played miniature golf.  This all while sailing the high seas.  This does not even take into account the extraordinary shore experienced we have had when we stop at all the different port of calls.  We have snorkeled with turtles, swam with dolphins, swam with stingrays, zip lined through the trees of Alaska, taking train rides up into the mountains of Alaska, gone out on an “all you can drink” pirate ship in Mexico, walked waterfalls in Jamaica, and have taken numerous city walking and bus tours.
One of things we love so much about cruising (other than the food) is the fact that on a one week long vacation, you get to visit so many different locations. Usually each cruise has 3-4 different stops.  This is another reason some people are not fans of cruising.  They would prefer to pick one location and stay there.  We like to do that too, however, when you are limited on vacation time, sometimes cruising gives you the most bang for your buck.

2.) Disney:

I don’t think it’s any secret if you have read any of my other blogs that I am a huge Disney fan.  We got to Disneyland at least once a year.  We pretty much always go in October for their “Mickeys Not So Scary Halloween” party.  As adults, this is one of the few places where we can still dress up in Halloween costumes and actually trick or treat for candy.  We normally come home with many pounds of candy from our trip.  We like to say that we try and get as much candy as possible to offset the price of the ticket… but let’s be real.  We get the candy for ourselves.  🙂
We also take a trip to Orlando to go to Disneyworld at least every 2-3 years.
We are such Disney lovers that we have been Disney Vacation Club Members for about 10 years.  This is the Disney timeshare, which helps with the cost of Disney hotels since we can use our points instead of having to pay cash every time we go.

3.) Work?  France/Germany
I added this in even though it was not technically a vacation.  I went to France (28 days) and Germany (4 days) on a business/work exchange program.  It was officially a work trip, but I did so much tourist stuff, it sure feels like it should be considered a vacation.

4.) Camping

Does camping qualify as vacations?  I think it does.  I actually think camping is probably the most relaxing of ALL the vacations we go on.  Camping is the only vacation we take were you actually HAVE to just kick back and relax.  You can go on walks and hikes and other various activities, but for the most part, it is not like our typical vacations were we seem to be busy morning until night doing all sorts of tours and excursions.
The best part of camping?  Smores of course!

5.) Las Vegas

As I mentioned, we go on a week long trip to Las Vegas every year.  My parents have a time share and we’ve been going along with them for the past 15 years.  The time share itself is lovely.  It has a beautiful pool and a lazy river and has daily activities for all owners.  We don’t really spend much time at the resort though.  We seem to always be on the move.  Even after all of these years going, we always seem to find new and fun things to do.  People are often surprised that we can go to Vegas for a full week every single year.  I could see how that would be difficult for some to understand if you just think of Vegas as a place to gamble.  We do like to gamble, but we are “cheap” gamblers.  We play penny slot machines and that’s on a budget.  We don’t however spend all of our time at the slot machines or on the Vegas Strip.  We like to venture out and do different things other then your typical Vegas type of actives.  We’ve been on a Ghost Hunting tour, food walking tours, cruised Lake Mead on a paddle boat, visited old ghost towns (this is my favorite thing to do).  We also spend time down on Fremont Street which is the old Vegas.  We’ve visited the Neon Graveyard (where all of the old Vegas neon signs retire) and because I love anything mob related, I made everyone go visit the mob museum (which was extremely fun and interactive).  Then there is of course the shows.  Any and every kind of show you want to see, they have it and we’ve seen a good amount of them.  Although I am not a huge fan of the heat, the rest of the group loves it, so they are just happy to enjoy the heat.

There are so many vacations still left on my to-do list.  I hope that if I were asked this question in 5 years, I could add a lot more to the list.  Although I enjoyed Europe, I am really focused on seeing as much of the U.S. as possible.  There are just so many things and so many States to visit.

All of this talk about vacations is making me want to go and plan one right now.  I better get on that!  🙂

My Story: 365 day blog challenge Day 3

365 Day Blog Post Challenge 2019
Day 3
123. List 10 things you want to accomplish before it’s too late

This was a great prompt to come up during the first few days of the new year.  It sure made me stop and think about some of my more meaningful goals and the importance of not continuing to put everything off.  We have a tendency to think that there is always a tomorrow, when in fact, there are no guarantees.  As you can see from my list below, the majority of the 10 things I would like to accomplish before it’s too late relate to travel and experiences.

1.) Visit all Disney parks.
I was fortunate enough to be able to visit 3 different Disney parks in 2018.
Disneyland in California, Disneyworld in Florida and Disney Paris.  I’ve been to
Disney California and Florida many times, but walking into Disneyland Paris was
a whole different level of Disney excitement.  Just knowing I was in another country
but getting to experience something so familiar was a unique experience.  I’m sure I
would feel the same if I was able to visit all the Disney parks.
2.) Travel Route 66.
I think this would just be a blast!  I actually have some books on fun places to
stop and also places to eat when traveling Route 66.  So, I have material to do the
research, now it’s just making the time to do it!

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3.) Buy a small RV and visit all U.S. States.
This is a dream of Don and mine.  We go to RV shows often to dream.  We don’t want
anything extravagant.  Just a small RV (something I would feel comfortable driving)
that we could throw our basic necessities in and hit the road.  There is so much to see
in the U.S.  We have not really been to many states, so our dream is to get out there
and see all that America has to offer.
4.) Be fully debt free and never need to depend on credit cards again.
This is something I am very seriously trying to accomplish over the next few
years.  I grew up in a home were living off of credit cards and having a large
amount of credit card debt was normal.  I got my first credit card at age 16
and have been in debt ever since.  I have never had a time in my adult life when I
was not in what most would consider pretty significant credit card debt.  I’ve never
experienced the feeling of not living paycheck to paycheck.
5.) Travel with Don to Europe: Germany, England, Netherlands,
I would have to say that my recent month long trip to France for work definitely tops
the list of one of the most extreme experiences I have ever had.  Although it was a
wonderful trip, I did miss Don.  I would have loved to experience my first
international trip with him, but sadly it just did not work out.  This makes the list of
10 things I want to accomplish before it’s to late simply because there is a pretty large
age difference between Don and myself.  I want to be able to do this while we are
both young enough to fully enjoy everything that international travel has to offer.
6.)  Go to Williamsburg Virginia!!
This should have probably been the first thing on my list.  I’ve wanted to go to
Williamsburg Virginia for longer than I can remember.  I am a history geek.  I love
the hands-on type of history like you can experience in Williamsburg.  Where people
dress up in period outfits and you get to see them reenact the living conditions of the
7.) Live more of a minimalist life style (have more adventures and less “stuff”).
Just like the debt, this is another area I am making a priority this coming year.  The
less “stuff” I have and the end of 2019 the better.
8.) Be financial set so Don can retire.
I often worry that Don will not be able to retire due to our financial situation.  He still
has several years to go before he would be able to retire at a normal retirement age,
but my fear is that due to our debt struggle, that he won’t even be able to retire then.
I don’t want him to have to work any longer then he should.  Finding the tools to get
into a better financial state is top priority for me in 2019.

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9.) Make a point to spend more quality time with family and friends making

Life is just busy.  That should not be an excuse to not be spending quality time with
family and friends.  I recall just a few years back when I was working  overtime
every weekend to try and make more money.  I would go into the office and work
every Saturday and sometimes Sundays.  We missed so many family events and I
never really made an effort to try and see my friends.  I basically would work, eat and
sleep.  I missed out on making so many memories during this time.  Time is the one
thing you cannot get back and as I already stated, tomorrow is not a guarantee.  So
attend that family get together and make those dinner plans with friends.
10.) Be healthier both body and mind.  Be off all prescription medications.
This is another work in progress, but I am hoping that changing to the lazy KETO
way of eating and continuing to drop some of this excess weight (down 17 pounds so
far), that this is not so far out of reach.  Although I have inherited my high blood
pressure from BOTH parents, I do believe that if I was at a healthy weight, I could
get it under control enough to get off the daily medication.  As for the anxiety.. I am
not so sure that will be so cut and dry, but there just has to be a way to calm a mind
without resorting to medication.

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So those are my top 10 things I would like to accomplish before it’s too late.  Who is to say when “too late” will be.  What I do know is that this topic was a fantastic reminder to myself of what is important to me and forces me to start thinking of ways to start taking the steps I need to reach these goals.


Paris Memories Part 2: Disney

Photo Jun 09, 12 04 27 AMI would imagine when most plan their very first international trip to Europe, their first thoughts don’t necessarily think of Disney.  Cathedrals, museums, and monuments maybe, but Disney?  I guess it takes a true love of all things Disney to be that person that gets excited when they first learn they are going to Paris simply because there is a Disneyland there.

I recently wrote about the special memories I had from my first day in Paris when I went on my walking food tour.  I would have to say that having the opportunity to visit Disneyland Paris tops the list of my amazing Paris experience.  I was lucky enough to get to share the day at Disneyland Paris with my cousin Jeannette.  She flew in to spend a week with me.  This was actually one of our last adventure days before she left to go home.  A good way to end things with a bang as far as I’m concerned (although I didn’t let her stay to watch the fireworks, because I was so exhausted…. so maybe it wasn’t much of a “bang” after all).  🙂

Now I admit I had some pretty grand notions of what my Paris Disneyland experience was going to be like.  I was so excited that I spoke about it often to my coworkers prior to the anticipated date.  I was only slightly deterred by them telling me that if I frequented California Disneyland, I would most likely be disappointed with the Paris version.  Seriously… how could one every be disappointed with Disney?  I would not let my excitement be squashed.  I was going to go and experience the Disney magic in all of its glory.

My first thoughts of Paris Disney?  I will admit, I was a little surprised at the size.  Having been to Disneyland in California hundreds of times, and Walt Disneyworld in Florida 4-5 times, it was in fact smaller.  However, I found it very charming.  And that castle… SERIOUSLY?  Being a native California girl, I feel like I’m being a traitor when I say that this castle is way more spectacular then the one in California.  The outside has much more of that fairytale look, not to mention the inside has a fire breathing dragon!  I seriously got goose bumps.

I was very excited to see that not only did they have some rides that they do not have in California or Florida, but they also had some modifications to similar rides.  For instance, The Indian Jones ride in California is completely different then Paris.  Not really knowing much about the Paris version of the ride, I of course was willing to check it out and give it a try.  Little did I know that the ride in Paris is actually a roller coaster that goes upside down (I don’t do upside down!).  We were already to the front of the line when this was discovered, so I had to suck it up and go on.  It wasn’t to terrible and I’m definitely glad I tried it…. at least once.

I wouldn’t be doing the day justice if I didn’t mention the Raratouille ride. Although they don’t have this in California or Florida, I was still much anticipating this one after watching many YouTube videos about Disney Paris.  This ride was super cute and has you being chased around inside your little rat-mobile as if you yourself were a rat.  Adorable!

Although I believe there are pretty mixed feelings about the It’s a Small World ride, I personally love it.  It’s is one of the few rides that lasts more then 30 seconds and is a wonderful place to rest your feet after walking all day.  The Paris version was great because we got to see a larger section on America which was pretty cool.

There were many times in the day when I would get lost in the Disneyness of things and forget that I was in another country.  Disney is such a familiar place for me, that it was easy to feel at home there, even though I was thousands of miles away.
There were certain rides that would pull me back to reality though.  Although I was in Paris, and shouldn’t have expected otherwise, I still found it fascinating to go on some of the more familiar rides (Buzz Lightyear, Snow White and the Seven Drawfs and Pirates of the Caribbean for example) and have them be speaking French.  It was a reminder that I wasn’t in California this time!

As for my general opinion of the park, I would say it was well worth the hour and a half train trip there.  Would I do it again?  ABSOLUETLEY (because that would mean I would get another trip to Paris).
Specifics on my park experience?  The food was… well I’d rank it as “okay”.  I didn’t eat anything that made me say “wow”.  With that being said, I didn’t eat anything that wasn’t decent either.  My only regret is that we didn’t make reservations to eat in one of the theme restaurants like Bistrot Chez Remy.  I believe that would have heightened the eating experience a lot.  The crowds….  average for Disney.  I would say maybe slightly more wait time in line at the rides, which could simply be that the park itself is smaller.

Overall, a total thumbs up!  IF I ever get to return, my hope is to stay in the Disneyland hotel that is actually located directly OVER the entrance of the park.  Can you imagine the amazing views from your room at night when all the lights come on?  That is something that is going on my bucket list.

I am not sure if I would ever be able to find anything negative about Disney.  Which is why in 2018 I will have my feet in three different Disney locations.  Paris was the first.  California the second and Disneyworld in Florida will be the third.

Love you Mickey!  Until next time.